The right perception for the right way of living life is your own. Almost everything can be acceptable and adaptable unless you violate the borders by damaging, distorting or destroying other living beings life.
You can choose to help others in that way you will help yourself as well. In life works quid pro quo. It is intentional or unintentional action driven principle. Works well for you (your inner self), if it is without planned action (without intent to gain), by the best intentions.
You can look from down to up and see all your possibilities or from up to down.